well our landlord placed a note on the fridge of the house that if we (all the tenants) can't pick after ourselves then she will be adding to the rent.
granted I haven't been prefect in that but when I am asked I man up to it. and clean up because it was late and I get in a grumpy mood making stupid pancakes... well in the last few years pancakes have been the main thing we eat if we get low on funds to pay for food. I am forced (well I can chose not too but that just opens up a can of rage directed at me I don't need so out of mental health I go ahead with it.) Normally the pans are not cleaned all the way or they are scraped with metal that their non-stick surface is damaged this makes pancakes very HORRIBLE to make and VERY hard to clean up (I spend an extra hour on one PAN to make it clean again and that isn't perfect and thats the problem).
granted I am more than happy to take out the trash when I am free but since I avoid placing trash in the bin I don't know its filled til someone else takes it out. I also have to handle many things with my father which I am not going to get into that. From being asked to stay up to keep my father awake and then complains I am sleeping too long (because he keeps AWAKING ME UP!)... Alas this isn't my worries right now.
Not long ago the landlords step son moved out and it would seem that be better but she been dealing with her husbands growing medical issues and that has to be a strain. In the last week he went to the emergency room about 5 times which is highly concerning so seeing junk in the kitchen and clean it up doesn't add to the mood. I avoid leaving junk but in the middle in the night you will miss things and my mindset cleaning isn't a "good" thing as I always link it to emotional negatives that happened in my life. Always... ALWAYS had to clean.. everything had to be prefect because guests where coming over. Its the mentality that doing dishes or such that makes me irritated because it was always rushed or over done and wasteful in efficacy.
In my past it wasn't every hour (except when guests coming over) It was also every other day. lacking the stuff to make a reasonable mess... It was meant to pass time to keep us busy when we where young. Thinking about it only brings up more questions than answers for me. I will get over it but writing this makes me thinking more about myself.
Porn is used VERY OFTEN in our age today and its a common thing. However though it shouldn't be a shame to omit such details in a cool matter its really no one's business what you do or don't do in reguards to porn. Things that people get shamed for is also something that always been a issue in society. How more Pure of a soul you are... when you don't look at porn and masturate to such material, which made this shadow of shame that looms over people because they get arosed over imagry of someone/thing/action a taboo among many religious people that I see in a daily basis.
I am not here to say you SHOULD be looking at porn and enjoy everything about it, no its quite the oppisite because something that makes you feel good that doesn't harm others/enviroment/health really shouldn't matter. I personally think its a sign of a true character of a person that they are honest that they look at porn... not the stuff they enjoy in detail but generalized. These people in my book are cool... they not afraid but they have no reason to suck you into their fieish. It seems to be more like a right of passage teenage years to be aware of termnology and the meaning behind it when its related to things in the sex sphere.
But, there are things that do disgust me that i hear people do and it gets my stomach to go into a spin-cycle because their enjoyment is very.... extreme in the options out there.. which do seem unhealthly or harmful physically. If a friend mentions that they where into that stuff I might mention "WTF" but I would get over it as long I didn't see it. I am not going to remind them how HORRIBLE they are.
Sexualty and Enjoyment in ones tastes should be able to be relaxed. It just bottles up and no one likes a sexually irrated person. If you don't need porn... good... want porn... cool... want to take over the world to be a utopia of balance and undertanding... send me an e-mail.
Oh boy, I am not surprised and that alone is sad. When people exclude others for who they are or what they think without harming anyone is harrassed with the pitchforks of words and Ignorance of those that enjoy the same show they do. Its out of assumsion that they where out to be this horrible entity to destory their way of life... but really they had no ill intentions for the fandom... it was innocent... but the trials where made with illogical brainless lot who think something so small was so bad. The lemmings that followed in their circle in the name of social justice warriors... Yet again we prove that they need to use the organ that located behind your eyes and bewteen your ears. A group of people that follow this rightous cause to make someone kill themselves...
you also know what that is... Its MURDER and you can be prosecuted in countries that have the laws in place and I assume majority of these "warriors" live within the United states of america... If I been informed correctly we have laws for this type of activity. Clearly we have people wasting their time being unriped of mental age that they lash out to anyone they can. If you attack someone with words in a group its the same of holding the knife and pushing it in for a fatal blow... It just makes you less than a monster but souless creten that can only be able to live with claws into souls and eat them from corpses. Its who such a creature lives... not as a humane person but a heartless person that if able would kill mercilessly to anyone not welcomed in their shadow.
I wish that major players that caused this indivinual pain and suffering... pays for it... each one giving pennance back to the one they drove too far. Only time will tell... and we need to stand up for whats right and take proper action and report such activity to authorties in mass. Only then action will be made.
Since of constant hate and corruption I see in our society in politics... what is my ideal society? well thinking about it I thought of a ideal world... Its not perfect but its better than what we have. It would require more open minded people and heavy adjustments that some religious groups would find offensive.